Democracy, philosophy, government.The list is practically endless. From politicians to religious leaders, we can generally agree talking about our problems is the best way to solve them. Even God himself seems to know the importance of explanations and dialogue. But if we can all agree that talking is important, especially when it comes to controversial topics, why does it always seem to not lead us anywhere? Perhaps that is because we are doing it wrong. In this book, I have compiled instructions that I find very useful in a very simple manner so that everyone of any stance may use them.