Before We Understood (en Inglés) - Mark Irabor

Before we understood love, we mistook it for certainty.

Before we understood faith, we thought it meant answers.

In Before We Understood, Dr. Mark Irabor recounts his journey from Nigeria to America, carrying ambition, conviction, and a carefully imagined future. What unfolds instead is a story of deferred dreams, cultural tension, financial strain, and a love that demanded more than romance; it demanded transformation.

Navigating family expectations, immigration realities, academic setbacks, and the quiet pressure of proving oneself in a foreign land, Mark discovers that becoming is rarely dramatic. It is slow. It is costly. It is sacred.

This deeply personal memoir explores:

Honest and reflective, Before We Understood is a testament to the truth that love is not found fully formed; it is forged in uncertainty.

This is the first volume in The Becoming Memoirs.