Reseña del libro "Built This Way (en Inglés)"
YOU KNOW BETTER. YOU STILL DO IT. HERE'S WHY - AND HOW IT CHANGES.Why do we keep living inside patterns we're aware of that still take over under stress - in how we react, relate, and retreat - long after we've figured out what's "wrong" with us? In Built This Way, Dr. Mark Pirtle, creator of SkillfullyAware(R), offers a clear, compassionate answer: our patterns aren't evidence that something is wrong with you. They are built - adaptively, intelligently - by a larger World-Body-Mind system that operates mostly on its own, and that once kept us safe.Pirtle redefines the problem readers actually have. It isn't a lack of insight - most people already know what they "should" do. The real obstacle is that painful patterns are conditioned loops running through the body, nervous system, memory, attention, relationships, and story, and knowing better rarely reaches deep enough to change them.Drawing on systems thinking, mindfulness, developmental psychology, and lived practice - and supported by neuroscience, contemplative wisdom, and nearly thirty years of teaching and integrative work - Pirtle shows what actually helps change take root: attunement (relating to yourself, others, and situations with acceptance and care), honest practice, responsibility, and care. His own hard-won recovery from patterns that affected his health, relationships, and career runs through the book as lived proof, not theory alone.SkillfullyAware means becoming more aware of your experience and learning to relate to it skillfully, so you can respond with greater choice and loosen the grip of old patterns. Across eleven chapters, the book moves from mapping the systems that build our patterns (mind, body, disrupted development, the stories we tell when we're stuck) to the practice of change itself - becoming more SkillfullyAware, doing the inner work most self-help skips, and widening the capacity to stay with discomfort without shutting down or lashing out. Each chapter closes with practical practices you can use in real life.Part teaching, part personal story, part practical guide, Built This Way is for anyone who has done the work of understanding their patterns and still finds themselves stuck inside them - and for anyone ready to trade self-blame for a real, workable path to change.
